Another with Mandy Bentley, who works as an artist in the country's area. 21-year-old woman who still looks young charming claimed not interested in marriage. "So what if not married, yet not a catastrophe? I'm pretty happy with life right now. If not push yourself to get married even be fatal," she said.
Fatal result is usually called another woman who does not want to end up like his brother. Another tells his brother, who was 35 years old. She had been living as a single woman of achievement, a brilliant career, well-established, and independent. But, at the urging of family and neighborhood, the older sister was in a hurry to get married.
However, after marriage, her sister instead faced a new problem: her husband a liar and live as parasites. Because he took no action to free himself, so he actually suffered from depression and colon cancer. His life story more sad and upset. Her husband had no livelihood clearly and simply spend the treasure NYS. In the meantime, he bet and fight alone against the cancer that kept gnawing at him until his death.
"The story of his life made me open my eyes. No or not married is not a catastrophe. I could do a lot of things even with single status. The important thing useful to do much for others and be happy."
Psychologist his smile just listening to the story of the lives of single people who are increasingly numerous. "Nothing is wrong. But clearly, because life more complicated and they are already accustomed to living alone, independently, is more careful to decide to get married," he said.
His friend advised for singles who have not got a soul mate so no need to worry, giddy to see his friend get married. "No need to mourn, although there is no ring around his finger. Why should grieve if a lot of reasons to be happy while being single."
Just when still a single, according to His friend, must convince yourself that still have the opportunity to expand the association. "The point is, do not shut down. Grow and expand rapid possible association. Who knows maybe one of them would be life partner," she added.
In fact, it reminds His friend, the position of single people can have adventures as they pleased, without having to think about others. "Running hobbies and activities at any time. And being selfish when I was single, not a great sin. No one would blame someone who is selfish, yet he does not disturb or harm other people," she said.
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